How to Keep Your Girlfriend Happy

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   Listen to her. If she has mentioned that something you do bothers her, change your behavior. We are not saying that you should change who you are, but relationships require compromise from both ends.
   
   

   
   
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   Tell the truth. Lies will drive a wedge of suspicion and mistrust between you and your girlfriend that you may never be able to fix. You may throw away a whole relationship with just one act of mistrust. Your actions should also prove to her that you are trustworthy. Conversations you have with other women should never border the line of being flirtatious or intimate. She needs to know that she can trust you in speech and conduct even in the little things. If you have a hard time with this one, maybe you aren't ready for a relationship.
3. 3
   Be spontaneous. Surprise her with flowers or notes. Whisk her away to an unplanned romantic dinner, day, or weekend. (However, make sure you plan it on a night/day/weekend when you know she won't have things to do).
   • Take her somewhere new. Many girls will get bored if you take them to the same place time after time (unless it's a special place for the both of you) so mix it up a little.
4. 4
   Be considerate. Recognize when she needs you to be there for her and when she needs to be alone.
5. 5
   Give each other space. Don't smother your girlfriend—you want her to be excited each time she sees or hears from you.
6. 6
   Return her calls. Unless she specifies that you don't need to call her back, it's good to get back to her when your girlfriend calls you.
7. 7
   Get her a gifts. It doesn't have to be big—even a small gift, like her favorite candy bar, goes a long way. Be listening to things she's wanted and surprise her with them from time to time.
   • If it's a big holiday, listen to hints she may be dropping about what she wants. Thoughtful gifts will show her you care.
   • Put some thought into it! What does she like? Does she have any collections? Does she have a wish list somewhere you can buy from? Has she mentioned wanting anything lately?
   • Get her something she can wear every day to remind her of you! A locket with a picture of you inside is an awesome idea.
   • If she gets you a gift for a holiday and you don't get her one in return, she's probably going to be bummed (even if she doesn't admit it). If this has happened in the past, make sure it won't happen again—and make up for doing it with a few surprise gifts.
8. 8
   Confide in her. Open up to her in a way that you don't do for most people. Keep her secrets when she does the same to you.
9. 9
   Defend her. If someone is teasing her take her side or no side. Girls need to know that their man has their back at all times. How would you feel if she took her friends or your friends side over yours?
10. 10
    Respect her. Remember than your girlfriend is not your "property." Be mindful of her opinions and desires, even if they differ from your own.
11. 11
    Make her feel special. While it is completely permissible for you to be friends with other girls in the proper context, don't flirt or put yourself in situations that will make you or her uncomfortable. Women have a strong sense of intuition and often times may see a compromising situation when men only see something innocent. Listen to her. Don't talk about other girls' appearances in front of her either, even if it's a celebrity. Tell her occasionally: "You're my only girl" or "you're the only girl I have feelings for" or something similar.
    • Never ignore her. It hurts immensely, and if you ignore her enough it may make her think about dumping you (although she won't let you know unless she decides to go through with it). Don't leave her waiting, either.
    • Text her when you're thinking about her. But DO NOT text anything you might not want her friends or family to read. Because once you have sent it, its on her phone forever for anyone to read.
12. 12
    Make her laugh. This doesn't mean that you should tell corny jokes at every opportunity. Know what kind of humor she likes. If she's upset, try and cheer her up (without being crass).
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    Please her friends and family. If her friends and family don't like you, she may have second thoughts about you herself.
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    Treat her like a princess! Open doors for her, offer her your jacket, pull her chair out for her, and stand up when she enters the room! When you take her on dates, don't let her pay. She'll love these little gestures.
15. 15
    Compliment her. Tell her she is beautiful, especially when she least expects it. Girls can spend a lot of effort trying to look nice, and it will make her happy that you noticed. Make your compliments meaningful and truthful. Instead of "Your hair is pretty," try "I really like the way you did your hair tonight! It looks so soft and beautiful." Say what you like about what you like
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    Don't take her for granted. Keep in mind that she could leave you whenever she wanted, so you'd better work hard at keeping her happy so that you can keep her as your girlfriend. Girls will only take so much hurt in a relationship. If you find that you are constantly hurting her, it won't be long before you lose her. If you want to keep her it's time to start treating her like a real man would.
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    Don't be ashamed to compliment her or show her affection in front of others. Real men aren't ashamed to show the world they've found a good woman and your girl will love you for that. People talk publicly about the things they value, she will instantly feel like a priority if you are confident enough to show the world how you feel about her.
    
    
    
    
    
    

    Tips

    • Be sure to spend time alone with your girlfriend.
    • Listen to what she says and say a little along with it.
    • Gifts don't need reasons to be given. Give her gifts on normal days. If you have no idea what gift to be given, send her a letter (begin with the least affection).
    • Let her know she is appreciated.
    • Do little things, she will be thankful for them; things like opening doors for her or pick up her pencil when it falls.
    • Girls like guys who work hard for her affection.
    • Get to know her favorite music band and find a song that you like so you can have a topic to talk to her about.
    • Try getting her a gift for a surprise once in awhile.
    • Whenever you smile, really mean it. Look into her eyes and smile as if you were seeing them twinkle. It makes you feel really happy and comfortable with each other, and shows feeling.
    • Be spontaneous but still give her some space.
    • Try to be friends with her friends even if her friends are annoying.
    • Remember: girls love romance. There is nothing a girl likes more than a nice candlelit dinner. Be an outstanding boyfriend and actually think about your girlfriend and her needs. In return, she should do the same.
    • Do not get too comfortable in the relationship. Keep doing the same things you did to get her and you will be amazed at how much she will give back in return.
    • When you hang out with other girls that your friends with, make sure to invite your girlfriend so that she can meet these girls and be comfortable with you spending time with them.
    • Make sure to remember her birthday, your anniversary and get her nice surprises. If you are forgetful or at a loss for ideas, take a look at the free service:

How to Keep Your Girlfriend Interested In You

When you begin dating an attractive woman you must realize how important variety, mystery, and suspense really are. I made these rules to help you understand their value in a more understandable way.

The location of a date should always be appropriate and always something different

If you have any idea what you are doing, then surely you know that the first date is ideally somewhere where you can communicate with your date. After all, you want to know whether or not she is worth your time. (This is also the perfect time for her to get to know you and become more comfortable around you -- so keep this in mind.) However, a coffee date, dinner date, picnic, etc. is not always the best way to go for subsequent dates.

Do not let things get repetitive and predictable

Perhaps on a subsequent date you would like to take her to a movie theater or invite her over to watch some old movies; it doesn’t matter as long as it’s not always the same ol thing.

Further down the line you may want to try golfing, self-defense classes, or some sort of hands-on activity. These are GREAT for a genuine DJ technique we call KINO. For example, if you are showing her how to defend herself or swing a golf club, you can use some light kino (touching) to explain it.

Be creative! You are also creating a sense of mystery about yourself because she never knows what the date will entail. This means that she will know you are always planning something different than the last date. Women love suspense and mystery, and what’s better than giving them absolute suspense?

What’s the difference between mystery and suspense? Mystery is not knowing what one will do next. Suspense is the emotion she tries to contain around you as she attempts to figure out what you are thinking.

Mix up her suspense level once in a while

If the woman that you are trying to seduce is always at her highest level of suspense, she may become desperate. Suspense is like an addiction: if she is always filled with suspense then she will crave more and more and more and eventually you might have a very desperate girl on your hands. If this has happened to you, you know how much of a turn-off it really is.

WARNING: Don’t let her suspense level get too low or you will become boring *shudder*. Always be mysterious and let the SL flow with the mood.

Be creative and mix things up for your lady!

Nothing impresses her more than variety, mystery, and suspense!

sprite wedding

Kate Middleson ng buhay ko
Miriam Saludaga ang pangalan mo
Ikaw ang princessang ni nanais ko
ang hangad ng puso kong ito
di man naging dugong buhaw
di man ako ganun kayaman
ngunit ipag kakaloob ko
ang pag ibig na dalisay tulad ng ginto
gaya gaya ang mga yun
daya inunahan payo
ngunit tiyak ako mas maganda ang ating storya
at ang kasal na napaka ligaya
akoy mag hihintay
akoy magsisikap




mahal na mahal kita
aking princessa 

i will miss you

my heart has starting to have a fear
what i will going to do this week?
what Is the cure of missing you?
it will give me a hard time
and a ache in my mind
and a pain in to my heart


this is love
this what is true love
Im so in love
Im adicted to it
Im falling to much
catch me
you can do it
I love you moo

ang pag ibig ko ay tunay

wala na akong gamot

para kahit saglit ay makalimot

sa pag kawalay sayo

sa pag iisip sayo

ganito na ang systema ko 

bawat araw na dumaan sa buhay ko

oh aking paibig

sinakop mo ang lahat sa akin

di ka nagtira kahit katiting

wala na atang pag mamahal sa sarili

lahat sayo na nakalaan

buong puso at isipan

mahal kita higit pa sa aking buhay

lahat handa ko ialay

pra sa iyo aking mahal

Miriam Oliva Saludaga Guerrero

mamen

ang hirap men
dito kana tira samen
ang hirap  men
miss na kita ma men


oh pag ibig ay napakasaya
ngunit napakahirap kapag wala ka
di ko mawari kung bakit
dito naman parati sa pusot isip
di ka nga maka alis alis
ngunit parati kitang namimiss
sadyang di buo ang araw kapag wala ka
sadyang di masaya kapag di ka kasama
libangin man angsarili ay kulang parin
kumain man ng marami na mimiss ka parin


ngunit akoy napaka saya sa iyong pag mamahal
sobra ang pasasalamat ko sa may kapal
mahal na mahal kita
wala na talagang iba
ikaw lang maniwala ka
MIRIAM OLIVA SALUDAGA




from
the monkey you love
Ephraim joy E guerrero

it was you

every day that God has made

I am amaze to the love you Gave

I always thank God for giving you

Miriam saludaga I love you

the rising sun symbolize new hope

but you my love symbolize all

being my everything is such a hard task

but you can afford to do that

just being your self

i see you in incredible way

this is love this is true love

thats why I thank the God above

to find the symmetry of my heart

to find my partner in life

lets do sam rap "mamen"

patutugin mo to bago mo basahin

makinig ka sa akin mamen

yow mamen

isa ka palang gangster
gusto ko sumali sa flip top
at para saiyo ang aking irarap

anghel ka sa lupa

dyiosa sa ganda

maniwala ka

hindi yan pambobola

mata ko atay may deperensiya

ganyan ang na iisip pag ikaw ay nakikita

kaya maniwala ka

para sa akin ikaw ang pinakamaganda

nakakahiya

para kang bituin sa langit 

ako naman ay pangit

napakaganda mo

no comment ako

ang bait mo 

saludo ako

gradute ka na ng nursing

ako kakatapos lang ng first year

ngunit akoy iyong tinanggap

natupad aking mga pangarap

sino bang mag aakalang

sa unggoy ka lang babagsak?

puso nilay wasak

at nabigong mabigyan ng pagkakataon

dahil kahit lumipas man ang maraming taon

at kahit sa lupa ako na ay ibaon

ikaw lang ang aking mamahalin

wala ng ibang iibigin

mahal na mahal kita mamen

sana maniwala ka sa ken

from the monkey who eats chicken

whats up mamen? haha

dear charot

I play mo tong kantang to bago mo basahin ang kwento ko:D hahaha
sumunod ka wag agaw trip haha





DEar charot

nung gabi nung araw na iyon halos do ako makatulog sa pag aalala sa kanya

napaka raming taong ang pumapasok sa aking isipan

ok lang kaya siya? ano kayang ginawa sa kanya? galit ba sa akin ang nanay niya?

at sa wakas antok ay dinalaw din ako at akoy nakatulog na

sa aking pag gising excited ako saming pag kikita at siya ay aking makamusta

ngunit maaga pa nag linis muna ako ng bahay at nag adik sa facebook

at pag katapos ko kumain dali dali na akong naligo kahit ang dadalawin koy tulog pa

pag katapos mag bihis dali dali akong umalis at sa daan na recieve ko ang kanyang text

salamat ang pina kamamahal koy gising na.

at sa aking pag dating sa kanila sarap sa mata na nakita ko siya ang sarap ng piling napaka ginhawa kahit ang init ng hangin parang taon di ko siya nakita at ang nurse ng aking buhay ay nag aalaga ng isang baby na ang pangalan ay sophia

lalo akong na inlove puso koy kinilig ang sipag niya at sadyang mapagmahal sa pamangkin niya

kaya dali dali ako nag linis ng makatulong ako sa kanya 

ang sweet niya sa mga yakap niyang napakahigpit lalo akong ginanahan mag linis

tinulungan ko rin siya mag alaga ng bata kawawa naman na kasi siya di na nakaligo kakaalaga

ngunit di mababawasan nun ang aking pag mamahal.

nakakapagod din alagaan ung batang yun sapagkat mabigat at minsan di mo alam ang gusto

at buti nalang di ako na tyambahan taihan at ihian hahaa galing ko tumiming hahah

pina pauwi nya na ako ng 7 30 amp ayoko pa humirit pa ako ng 8 pm at akoy pinag bigyan

nang kami pa uwi na hiniling nya na akoy picturan 

nagwapuhan ata sakin hahah jowk lang ayaw ko pa sana mag pa picture dahil sa ate niya yung cam

makikita ang aking kagwapuhan (kum para sa ibang ungoy) ngunit

di ko siya matiis kaya akoy pumayag

akoy hinatid niya na at ayaw ko pa umuwi

kasi men 9 pa ako kaylangan sa bahaymen maaga pa men ngunit nag pumilit siya

kaya akoy umuwi na

title:

bitin sa maghapon na ikaw ay kasama
parang kay bilis ng oras kung lumipas
parang di naibsan ang pangungulila sayo sinta
sadayang hinahanap hanap ka 
bawat araw hirap ang nadarama
kapag sa piling ko ay wala ka
labis labis ang saya sa piling mo
hinagpis ang dulot sa pag uwi ko
kasing lalim ng karagatan ang ating pag mamahalan
daanan man ng bagyo at unos hindi mapipigilan
nurse ng buhay ko
dinggin ang pasasalamat ng musikero
mahal na mahal kita yham
itoy galing sa ungoy na malaki tyan
hahaha

your love

your Love

has captured my whole heart

your love

makes me enjoy my whole life

your love

is a blessing from God above

your love

is what I always want

your love

makes me glad

your love

filled my heart with joy

thank for your love

I love so much moo ♥

miss ko na siya
eto nag selos pa
adik na nga ako sayo
di ba napaka laking ibedensya ng blog ko?
kaw lang ang mahal ko?
sabuong araw kaw lang ang katext ko
wala na akong inisip kung di ikaw
nag dududa paba ikaw?


i love you moo
I miss you
i love you my wife

mapalad ako taga mo sa bato:D

kulang na kulang
bitin na bitin
kulang na kulang
sobrang bitin


oras sa piling mo
sana namay huminto
oras sa tabi mo
sanay mapatigil ko


sapagkat ayaw ko ng mawalay pa
sa piling mo aking sinta
ligaya mong hatid
ay hindi ko mawari
pag ibig mong inalay
iingatan ko habang buhay
akoy sadyang mapalad
akoy sadyang pinag pala

dahil sayo

your monkey miss you

sadyang napakahirap ng kanilang pinagagawa

hirap ang kalooban at ang aking isipan

palagikitang na iisip at na mimiss kita

hirap at sakit sa ulo ang nararamdaman

akoy napapaisip

kaylan ba magiging totoo ang panaginip

akoy nangarap

kay lan ba matutupad ang lahat

sana ikay kasama

at hindi na mawalay pa

sapagkat ramdam ko ang pagdurusa

kapag sa piling ko ay wala ka

miss na kita

sana nan dito ka

A love like this, will never pass away.
A love like this, grows stronger everyday.
What God has put together, gonna let no man put asunder
A love like this will stand the storm, come wind, rain or thunder
A love like this, it will never, no never pass away.

Lord I could never repay
Repay you for this love that we've come to know.
Miriam, I know what you mean
Seems like the Lord has blessed us with a love that
   would make even CUPID,  wanna hang up his bow.

For better, or for worse,
In sickness and in health, I'm gonna love you if your poor
Or if you've got a little bit of wealth
 
A love like this, it will never no never, pass away.

A love like this, still does exist and we thank the Lord
     for blessing us with it

We thank you
We are now one, we thank you, we thank you
United in the Son, We thank you

happy in monthsarry

happy 5th monthsarry
may 18 2011 get ready
we are coming to you
and overcome you
I always feel blessed
I always feel happiness
sorry for my wrong deeds
and thank you for everything
I always thank God about you
I always pray for you
You touch my life
in a incredible way
my love will never die
i will prove it everyday
thank you
thank you
i love you
i love you
i love you
i love you moo

moo

naway akoy patawarin 
sa aking maling ugali
isa akong pasaway
di sumusunod sa nanay
pangako ako ay mag babago na
pag sinabi mong tulog na 
akoy matutulog na
di na ako mangungulit pa
susundin kaagad kita
ngunit sana 
wag ipag kait sa kin ang linggo
ang  lunes
dahil un lang ang araw na tayo ay pwede mag kita
napaka hirap ngunit kakayanin ko para sa iyo
susunod ako para sa iyo
mahal na mahal kita
sobra sobra
patawad
sory na
advance happy th mothsarry
kita tayo sana pag bigyan mo ako